I don’t know if this counts, but just to share it will make me feel better. Recently I broke up with the world’s clingiest man, and predictably he wasn’t happy. In the meantime, I’d taken up nude modeling – I liked doing it, it was fun, and it paid the bills not covered by my minimum wage food service job. What he did, rather than just accept it and move on, was hack into my e-mail account and forward all my correspondences with the photographer I worked with to a whole host of people in my address book, including both my parents and my former manager. I just thank God that he didn’t find my landlord or current manager in there. Anyway, the reaction from my parents was atomic, but beyond that *I* felt completely violated and unsafe. It was like I was wearing a wire for a month after that – I wouldn’t say shit about my life in e-mails or Facebook messages.
I still feel violated. Worst of all, my local police department was too slow on helping me out, so I don’t have the legal proof I need that it was him. He, obviously, denies it vehemently. I feel unsafe and horrible. Whether this counts as sexual harassment or not, it felt like…I don’t know, like emotional terrorism. He set out to humiliate me for really no good reason.
Submitted by Anonymous on 7/29/2010
Location: In my Home
Time of Harassment: Late Night (12A-5A)
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